When you're tired, sleep

Although she has only been on this earth for five months, my darling little girl is an amazing creature who has already taught me (reminded me of) many things. Her natural impulses are so strong and I hope to help her maintain these for as long as possible. Unfortunately, life seems to get in the way for the rest of us and slowly these impulses fade. I know many of you think metaphors are cheesy, but I dig em. So here they come:

1. When you're tired, sleep. Naps are awesome. We need restful moments in our lives. Naps, walks, days off, vacations, and even moments to ourselves help us recharge. When Bug wakes up, she stretches her arms and beams. I must remember to take time for myself so I can feel that same joy.

2. When you're hungry eat. When you're full, stop. Luci senses an empty belly and knows she needs to do something about it. When she's full, she stops. So many of us sense those empty spots, yet do nothing to fill them. Others have full bellies, yet keep stuffing things in. We need to create that balance of "just full enough."

3. When you need something, start with a whimper. If its really important, let out a scream. Let the people around you know what you need. If they are not paying attention, give them one more chance to listen. Still not listening, let 'em know.

4. Life's too short to lay on your back. Roll over. Sit up. Don't just lay there.

5. Swings can be fun. And toys. And mirrors. And all sorts of endless other things. Get back to the things that you enjoy.

6. Slow down and stare at your hands. Relax. Chill. Take ten minutes just for yourself. Its the little things.

7. Only smile at people that matter to you. Luci only smiles at people she knows. Strangers spend ridiculous amounts of time trying to get her to smile to no avail. We spend alot of time and effort worrying about what people who don't even know us think. So stop.

8. The things you know how to do are amazing, so be proud of them. Watch a baby grin when she rolls over for the first time and tell me I am wrong.

9. You are surrounded by people who love you. Don't forget that. People spend enormous amounts of time letting children know how much they are cared for. We don't do this as much as we get older. Tell the people you love how you feel about them. Today.

Luci Stats at 5 months:
Weight 14.5 pounds
Height 27.5 inches
Two Lower Front Teeth
Rolling over Both Ways
Sitting with some Assistance
Loves: The Jumperoo, her Exersaucer, and her deer